BAD THINGS IN HUMAN
Blaming other people
This is bad habit of P and C, it is primitive and childish.
Blaming others is model of how human’s idea is primitive. For example, people
in deep villages, when seeing people got sick, what they are thinking is”who is
the shaman that makes this person sick?” always “how” not “what” is the cause
of this. If you are thinking who is causing it, it is the same with primitive.
Childish, childish won’t blame at all, children always try to blame others if
he did something wrong. If you have intelligence and an adult, you will find what
cause it happened.
Blaming
oneself
Blaming oneself that you fell unable. This feeling
will kill us slowly, this bad habit is like cancer, bigger and biggger in our
mentality. Felling oneself inferior, do not have ability to onething. Often comparing
others success with our deficiency, it makes others success are proper because
they have something that we don’t have. Ever felt so?
Do not have Goal or dream as well
We are often
fetched up to our business in working, without any clear goal. We should have
goal activity, whethet it is long target or short target. Make your goal for
survive in life not for fun, if you have goal for fun, you will be wearied. For
example, you have so many assignments, then you do the assignment in the same
time. You assignment would be wretchedly finished. You should focus and
priority to finish one assignment.
Have a goal, but do not have basis
This thing,
ussually experienced by a person who does not “teachable”. The goal is wrong,
our focus would be wrong, the way to achieve also wrong, the direction would be
wrong as well
taking shortcut
One success
will never be passed through shorcut. Shortcut wil never bring people to the
real success, it is because doesn’t follow the process. If you avoid the
process, you will not get mature in life. If you want to success but you still
do nothing, then you will get nothing as well. It is what we call the nature of
life.
taking too long path, too slow
for example,
plane need minimum speed 300km/hour to take off, if the plane just run with
50km/hour, the plane will not be able to take off.
ignoring small things
wanted just
big things, sensational things, but not the same to the small things. Remember,
in a big building, it certainly havve small komponent. Don’t ignore small
things, even less poor people.
too fast to give up
not wrong
starting make people fail, but stop in wrong place. Start wrongly still can be
repared, but stop in the wrong place will be unable to handle.
imagination of past
people have
negative memories, if we ever failed for one time, you will afraid to do the
same thing, it would limit us to go forward. Remember, life is going forward,
and the time still running forward. So, look forward, even you fall, the time
still off.
Hypnotize oneslef with abstract success
We can call it
pseudo success syndrome, we usually stop with small success, satisfied with
small success. We will thing it is already a big success, do not evver trapped
in small success.
taking shortcut
taking too long path, too slow
ignoring small things
too fast to give up
imagination of past

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